Shabby Chic Decor, Girlfriends & Palm Trees

Shabby Chic Decor, Girlfriends & Palm Trees go together for me like nubby linen, vintage china, and bleached oak, but if you require more convincing than that, keep reading, shabby chic mamas and daddy-o’s!

Shabby Chic Decor, Girlfriends & Palm Trees

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Shabby Chic reminded me that today is National Girlfriends Day!

One of the things I deeply admire about the Shabby Chic brand is how Rachel Ashwell shares her life behind the scenes without glamorizing or schmoozing. She blogged just the other day about traveling to London and how life has not been all skittles and beer – READ IT HERE and perhaps send her some love.

Shabby Chic Decor Finds From Rachel Ashwell

There are oodles of lovely SHABBY CHIC finds designed by Rachel if you are a fan of romantic, feminine, soulful decor!

Shabby chic Rachel Ashwell hammock and pink throw. #shabbychic #rachelashwell #hammock #summerliving #palepink
Photo: Rachel Ashwell. Pink Waffle Knit Throw: FIND HERE.
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Shabby Chic Living Room Finds from Rachel Ashwell

Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #hellolovelystudio
Boho inspiration and Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic. Sofa, Chair, Chandelier: FIND HERE.
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Pale blue accents and Shabby Chic Rachel Ashwell Living Room Finds: FIND HERE.
Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #sectional #livingroom #slipcovered
White sectional inspiration and Shabby Chic Rachel Ashwell Living Room Finds: FIND HERE.
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Shabby Chic Dining Room Finds from Rachel Ashwell

Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #diningroom
Quiet dining room inspiration and Shabby Chic Decor from Rachel Ashwell finds: FIND HERE.
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Quiet dining room inspiration and Shabby Chic Decor from Rachel Ashwell: FIND HERE.
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Rachel Ashwell Bedroom Decor Finds from Shabby Chic

Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #bedroom
Rachel Ashwell White Bedroom Shabby Chic Decor Inspiration and Lovely Finds: RIGHT HERE.
Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #bedroom
Shabby Chic Rachel Ashwell White Bedroom Decor Inspiration and Lovely Finds: RIGHT HERE.
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Rachel Ashwell Teal and White Bedroom Shabby Chic Decor Inspiration and Lovely Finds: RIGHT HERE.
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Shabby Chic Decor Finds from Rachel Ashwell – Bathroom

Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #bathroomdecor #clawfoottub #vintagestyle
Bathroom Finds from Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic: FIND HERE.
Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #turquoise #pastels
Shabby Chic pastels and bathroom finds from Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic: FIND HERE.
Shabby Chic Decor finds await you in this inspiring lineup of interior design inspiration. #shabbychic #interiordesignideas #decoratingideas #rachelashwell #whitebathroom
White bathroom room inspiration and Bathroom Finds from Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic: FIND HERE.
Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic Boho Pink Embroidered Bedding Collection. #shabbychicdecor #boho #pink #bedroomdecor
Rachel Ashwell Shabby Chic Pink Embroidered Bedding: FIND HERE

Shabby Chic Decor Around My House

Diptyque Figuier Candle. #diptyque #figuier #fig #candle #paris
Diptyque Figuier Candle: FIND HERE
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Battery Operated Fairy Lights: FIND HERE

In honor of this day, I want to also take time to honor my girlfriends – the lovely and merciful travel companions with whom I am grateful to  journey on this path where we are daily broken into beautiful…even as we realize greater wholeness.

Magnificent palm tree in Boyce Thompson Arboretum in Arizona. #hellolovelystudio #palmtree
An incredible palm tree I visited in Arizona at Boyce Thompson Arboretum.

Here is a love letter of sorts to them written a few years back.

Me and my little sisters in La Jolla.

Palm Trees

by Michele

“God sets the lonely in families.” ~Psalm 68:6

I am a lonely soul.

Yet I have been blessed with friendship.

College visit trip to San Diego State.

These beautiful souls are my secret source of strength…especially on days it is hard to breathe.

They are my hundredth wind.

These girlfriends showed up when I said my wedding vows. When I was fading fast from a rare infection settling in my small intestine or ready to give birth. They were near when anxiety and depression moved in and when my breasts, well, when they moved out.

They are great listeners, these ladies. They hear my stories and truly get them. And the stories can be odd.

Red Rocks fun.

Take my dream last night.

I was Joan of Arc and reached for a golden sword to remove the stubble from my legs. With a quick gesture like a slashing fishmonger, I split the flesh wide open, just below my knee.

In my dream, the blood spilled forth as I nonchalantly sighed, crap…I’ve done it again.

My friends respond similarly to the dramas which swirl about us. We share our stories and somehow help each other recover laughter again.

My friends do not pity me.

They know that whether it is a genetic mutation diagnosis I share with Angelina Jolie or a nervous breakthrough, I am a fierce mama who will still burn up the dance floor.

Such friendship reminds me of the palm trees.

The palms flourish in sunshine; but they also bend and twist in hurricane winds, without breaking in two.

They are a balm when temperatures rise.

Protection when a sun-scorched world imposes.

Their beauty beckons all to slow down and BE HERE.

What a blessing that they teach me more about God’s love than I can say.

What joy, what comfort, their love brings to this, my lonely soul.

Their love is the arms of a heavenly father, carrying me over vast stretches of rocky earth, rescuing me from an ocean deep.

“He reached down from on high and took hold of me; He drew me out of deep waters.” ~Psalm 18:16

I am a lonely soul.

But lonely souls can find rest.

I am my mother’s daughter. Each new day is a sort of quest to uncover beauty, God, and peace in my world…wherever I may be planted.

I am my sister’s sister. No matter how many hours are spent together, when it is time to part, there is still so much more to say.

I am my girlfriends’ girlfriend…ever grateful for the sweetness of every palm.

Peace to you right where you are.

-michele

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10 Comments

  1. August 2, 2018 / 7:30 am

    Those are such joyful photos with your friends!
    Thanks for the shot of shabby chic, too. I always did like it and it has held up over time.

    • michele
      Author
      August 2, 2018 / 8:12 am

      Those girls do radiate joy! Thanks for reading. 🙂

  2. Tracy
    August 2, 2018 / 9:24 am

    Lovely post and circle of friends! I remember that picture of you with the glass of wine and shabby shoes from years back. ? Weren’t the sold through Toms Shoes? Another thing in your post jingled a memory, your mention of “A Beautiful Mess.” It May not be the one your referring to, but I remember following a blog by that name, proprietor Ruth ?, and lived in Florida. I wonder whatever happened to her. Your burlap reminded me of something she would have sold. Anyway cheers to good friends, they are true gifts!! Enjoy your day Michelle.

    • michele
      Author
      August 2, 2018 / 10:53 am

      Good memory! Yep. They are Tom’s and probably retired. I am going to put the link to A Beautiful Mess in that caption so there can be no confusion. It’s a beautiful shop in Agoura Hills, California, with Kimberly Fraser at the helm. There is also a wildly popular blog by the name which is written by two sisters. Thanks for playing along and for your loyal readership, friend. xox

  3. August 2, 2018 / 9:33 am

    Your words are magic, my friend! God bless you and your girlfriends!! And Shabby Chic just lives on, doesn’t it? It’s timeless. xoxo

    • michele
      Author
      August 2, 2018 / 10:47 am

      Thanks for the blessing – I’m doubly blessed since it’s from your lovely heart. 🙂

    • michele
      Author
      August 2, 2018 / 10:46 am

      So thankful for your readership. Have a wonderful week, friend. 🙂

  4. Karen H.
    August 2, 2018 / 12:06 pm

    You are an inspiration girlfriend! Peace be with you.

    • michele
      Author
      August 2, 2018 / 10:44 pm

      just muddling through, friend. peace to you. 🙂

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